If you’re looking for a proven framework that you can return to time and time again—one that offers deep connection exercises, practical tools for confidence, and strategies to create a steady, fulfilling partnership—KISS, CONNECT…CHILL is for you. And we couldn’t be more excited to share it with you!

You dream of a relationship that feels secure, aligned, and full of passion. Yet, there are moments of discomfort—times when communication feels off, when you and your partner(s) seem disconnected, or when expressing your needs doesn’t come easily. We see you. 

You want more than just a steady relationship; you want one that brings true intimacy, shared dreams, and deep joy. And the best part? It is possible!

We know because we’ve been there. Before we understood the key steps to building a truly committed and thriving relationship, we struggled too. That’s exactly why we created this course—to guide you through the process of strengthening your bond, improving communication, and building a relationship that truly works.

It’s time to stop second-guessing, stop feeling stuck, and stop wasting energy on uncertainty. You deserve a connected, conscious, and deeply fulfilling partnership.

Ready for your life to change?

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  • Imagine… you’ve just finished KISS, CONNECT… CHILL

    ✔ You and your partner(s) understand each other’s communication styles and feel completely aligned.


    ✔ You’re living your shared values with clarity and purpose.


    ✔ You have a toolkit to navigate challenges together with confidence.


    ✔ You feel closer to your partner(s) than ever before.


    ✔ Your intimacy—both emotional and physical—is stronger, deeper, and more fulfilling.

    This is your opportunity to create the relationship you truly desire.

Let’s break it down…

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

UNDERSTAND

We're here to help you express exactly what you desire. Through Kiss, Connect, Chill… you will understand more about where you are, what you want and what you can give making it simple to build your dream relationship.

ACCEPT

Once you understand more about yourselves and your relationship, you will learn to appreciate, accept, and align with each other better.

CHANGE

Committing to this journey makes change easier. We’ll help you show up for yourselves and each other, taking the steps that bring more joy every day. With Kiss, Connect… Chill, it all comes naturally.

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10 x 90-minute online couples workshops—these are hands-on and experiential, not lectures. You’ll be actively participating, practicing, and connecting.

Self-paced learning you can do on your schedule—Whether you’re early risers, night owls, or fitting this in between work and family life, the course is designed to meet you where you are. Move through each workshop at a pace that feels right for you, revisiting practices and tools as often as needed. No pressure, no deadlines—just meaningful growth in your own rhythm.

A private 30-minute 1:1 session with Alexandra and Mahayla—Get personalised guidance tailored to your unique relationship dynamic. This is your space to ask questions, gain clarity, and receive direct support from both of us as trained psychotherapists and relationship coaches.

Three live Q&A sessions with other couples—Join us in real-time to deepen your practice, ask questions, and connect with a supportive community on the same journey. These sessions offer guided experiences, group reflection, and the chance to feel seen and supported alongside other intentional partners.

  • Guidance from two trained psychotherapists (that’s us!) blending therapeutic depth with coaching clarity, always grounded in real-life relationships.

  • Tools, tips, and resources to set your relationship up to be its very best—during and beyond the course.

  • Curated reading material to deepen your understanding of love, intimacy, and conscious communication.

  • Whatsapp Q&A support throughout the journey—so you’re supported every step of the way.

  • Real-time connection practices to help you explore physical and emotional intimacy with more presence and ease.

  • “Chill time” rituals to bring calm, joy, and groundedness into your day-to-day connection.

  • Replayable sessions so you can revisit the content anytime you need a spark or a reset.

  • Weekly reflection prompts to guide meaningful conversations, emotional check-ins, and shared growth.

  • Activities to Revisit Anytime—Engaging practices and exercises designed for you to come back to whenever you need a relationship boost. These activities will help you reignite connection, navigate challenges, and continue deepening your bond.

WHAT’S INCLUDED

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This IS for you if

  • You’re ready to commit to yourself & your partner(s) fully

  • You want to live an intentional relationship

  • The idea of conscious coupledom lights you up

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This is NOT for you if

  • You’re not ready to take accountability for yourself

  • You’re not willing to put in the work

  • You don’t have a partner(s)

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What a Module Looks Like
Each module is carefully designed to deepen connection, clarity, and conscious love. Here’s what you can expect:

  • Pre Reading

    Short, focused material to introduce the theme of the module and prepare you for the live session. These may include articles, short videos, or guided reflections.

  • Live Interactive Workshop

    A spacious, guided session where we explore the week’s theme together. Theory is woven throughout, brought to life through real examples, partner exercises, and group dialogue. You'll engage in reflective practice, live coaching, and meaningful conversation.

  • Personal Reflection Prompts

    Questions designed to help you connect the learning to your own life and relationship. These deepen self-awareness and help you process the material at your own pace.

  • Tools and Techniques

    Each module includes clear, practical strategies—whether it's a communication tool, a self-regulation practice, or a mindset shift—that you can use right away.

  • Takeaway Activities

    Designed to gently challenge and stretch your relationship, these exercises help turn insight into action between sessions. Whether it's a meaningful conversation, a solo practice, or a shared experience, each activity invites deeper connection and growth for both you and your partner.

  • Bonus: Our Proven Step-by-Step Formula for Thriving Relationships

    The Relationship Reset Blueprint—A step-by-step guide to take your relationship from stressed and disconnected to deeply aligned and thriving. Learn the exact tools and strategies we use to help couples restore their connection and intimacy.

    The Communication Mastery Formula—Unlock the key to clear, compassionate, and confident communication with your partner—turn conflict into growth and connection into ease.

    The Repeatable Love Cycle—A framework you can apply daily to keep the love alive, reduce tension, and create an ongoing cycle of understanding, affection, and mutual growth.

    The Intentional Partnership Action Plan—A fill-in-the-blank worksheet that helps you both create a roadmap for your relationship, aligning your shared goals, needs, and desires for the future.

PICK YOUR OPTION

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Are you ready?

Get your relationship signed up

What our couples say.

  • Working with Alexandra and Mahayla

    "Is very very insightful."

  • Kiss, Connect… Chill

    “Helps couples literally find each other again, because we take each other for granted so much, it’s unbelievable!”

  • Kiss, Connect… Chill

    “The course gives you the space to see what you really want in your relationship and what your partner really needs.”

  • Kiss, Connect... Chill

    “you get to think and reflect about your relationship, which is not something I do everyday”

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Keen to know more…

Investing in your relationship is a BIG decision, so if you are curious, have questions, or want more info, visit our FAQ’s, DM us on Instagram @iyai_itsyouandi or EMAIL US