It’s You and I
Creating a world where we choose love and live with intention.
Welcome to "It's You and I"
A coaching service that fosters intentional and conscious relationships founded by Alexandra Tarr and Mahayla Marriott, London-based Relationship Coaches and Psychotherapists.
Our mission is to create a world where people choose love and are intentional in their relationships. We believe in mindful living. We hold that a fulfilled and happy relationship begins with deeply understanding oneself. Through self-awareness, personal development, and growth, individuals can come together to create a conscious, intentional partnership—a relationship built on purpose, alignment, and mutual respect.
Our services are designed to help you…
✔ Develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence
✔ Communicate effectively and intentionally
✔ Overcome challenges with grace and confidence
✔ Build a relationship that aligns with your highest vision
We are Advocates for Conscious Relationships…
We believe that anyone can create purposeful, fulfilling relationships that align with their highest selves. Our specialism is supporting couples in being more conscious and guiding them through significant life transitions together. Our work emphasises self-awareness, effective communication, and the courage to navigate challenges with grace and intention.
At “It’s You and I,” we are committed to empowering our clients to dream bigger, love deeper, and live more intentionally. Whether you're an individual seeking self-discovery or a couple ready to elevate your relationship, we provide a compassionate and transformative space to help you thrive.
What We Do…
We specialise in helping people cultivate conscious, thriving partnerships through personalised coaching. Whether you’re navigating the early stages of a relationship, cultural differences, preparing for marriage, confronting a new challenge or seeking to deepen your connection, we’re here to guide you with compassion, clarity, and evidence-based strategies.
Why Work With Us?
We bring a unique perspective to relationship coaching, blending over 15 years of global experience with extensive training as BACP-registered Psychotherapists and Counsellors. Our work with diverse couples and individuals, coupled with a deep understanding of cultural nuances, makes our approach both holistic and impactful.
Let’s Get Started…
Are you ready to take the next step in your journey toward a fulfilling and intentional partnership? We’re here to support you every step of the way. Explore our services, reach out to us, and let’s begin creating the relationship you desire.
Work with us
At It's You and I, we support individuals, couples, and professionals in creating intentional relationships—personally and professionally. Through coaching, courses, and curated experiences, we help you connect more deeply, communicate more clearly, and live with purpose.
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For Individuals & Couples
Couples Coaching
Deepen connection, improve communication, and navigate challenges with care and clarity.Individual Relationship Coaching
Gain insight, heal past patterns, and prepare for conscious, fulfilling love.Pre-Marriage Coaching
Lay strong emotional foundations as you step into marriage with intention.Private Sessions & Packages
Tailored support designed to meet your unique relationship journey. -
Courses & Resources
Kiss, Connect… Chill
Our signature self-paced course for couples looking to build emotional safety, intimacy, and everyday joy—together.How to Date with Intention (Coming Soon)
A guided experience for singles ready to attract love that aligns with who they truly are. -
For Industry Professionals
Coaching for Wedding Professionals
Show up confidently, communicate clearly, and build a values-aligned business that serves both you and your clients.Speaker & Content Curation
We help speakers and event hosts craft purposeful, engaging talks that align with your event’s mission and leave lasting impact.Hosting & MCing
Thoughtfully designed panels, conferences, and gatherings that bring intention, warmth, and clarity to the stage.Workshops & Team Trainings
Strengthen how your team connects—with each other and with the people you serve—through custom experiences that bring relational insight to your work.
