“The hardest thing in life is to ask and really listen to yourself - what do you really want ?”
Alexandra Tarr
Alexandra’s Philosophy
Alexandra is a psychotherapist and coach who has dedicated her career to understanding relationships and helping others understand themselves. She believes that true connection begins with self-awareness—knowing your patterns, needs, and desires—and learning how to express them clearly and compassionately.
Through her work, she guides individuals, couples and organisations to navigate challenges, communicate with confidence, and create relationships that are intentional, aligned, and deeply fulfilling. Alexandra combines therapeutic insight, coaching strategies, and real-world experience to support her clients in building the love, connection, and life they truly want.
Alexandra’s holds a BA hons in languages from the University of Birmingham and her Psychotherapy training includes Diplomas in the Person Centered Approach with focuses on Transactional Analysis, CBT and Existential Counselling. Alexandra is also a published researcher in the subject of Sex Addiction, a BACP Registered Member (MBACP 394216) and a Qualified Coach (ILM Level 3, EMCC & ICF Accredited).
Alexandra believes in continual personal growth and she is currently completing specialisation training in Transpersonal Couples & Intimate Relationship Therapy.
A Therapist
Alexandra offers a non-judgmental, empathetic and authentic space to discuss your issues. She abides by the BACP Ethical Framework, which puts client safety and confidentiality at the fore, and she has worked with a range of presenting issues. Alexandra specialise in creating empowered lifestyles and turning intentional relationships into reality. Now with over 15 years of work experience she uniquely blend psychological insights with practical strategies to enhance emotional well-being, leadership skills and compassionate creation. Alexandra is passionate about helping my clients gain their own empowerment through mental health support and personal development.
As a therapist, Alexandra began her journey back in 2017, working in schools and the NHS before opening her private practice in 2022. She now see clients in person at her London Victoria and London Bridge Offices as well as working online.
In Alexandra’s approach, she believes that we grow through what we go through. We call them growing pains because it hurts, it’s hard, and sometimes it just outright sucks. In our sessions Alexandra will show up for you unconditionally, bringing her fullest self with empathy, awareness, and kindness. Alexandra will guide you to empower yourself, take back your reigns, and claim you, who you are in all your strength.
A Coach
As a coach Alexandra has worked globally from South Korea to the USA and many countries in between, she works with C-Suite leaders and industry experts. Alexandra’s coaching style is direct and solution-focused, she challenges her clients to bring their whole selves to work on developing their awareness and pushing through pain points. Alexandra specialises in working with Speakers to become stage-ready and has have curated content on a wide variety of topics including :
• Sustainability • Growth • Finances • Collaboration • Ethics • AI • Marketing • Branding • Social Media • Gender • Equality • Diversity • Business Success • Women’s Issues • Children & Work • Menopause • Glass Ceiling • Hospitality • Trust • Personal Development • Culture • Luxury • Navigating Covid • Philanthropy • Charity • Wedding Taskforce • Investments • Legal Contracts • Emotional Intelligence • Staffing •
Whether you’re an industry expert preparing for a keynote, a panelist seeking to elevate your impact, or a new speaker looking to find your voice, Alexandra provides tailored coaching to ensure you connect with your audience and leave a lasting impression.
Alexandra’s speaker coaching focuses on:
Storytelling Mastery: Helping speakers craft engaging, relatable content that aligns with their personal brand and event objectives.
Stage Presence & Confidence: Equipping speakers with the tools to command the room, manage nerves, and deliver with authenticity and impact.
Audience Engagement Strategies: Teaching techniques to create meaningful connections with audiences through tone, body language, and interactive elements.
Personalised Feedback & Rehearsal Support: Offering constructive feedback and hands-on rehearsal sessions to refine delivery and ensure clarity of message.
Having worked with speakers from diverse backgrounds—ranging from wedding industry icons to corporate leaders and creative entrepreneurs—Alexandra is passionate about empowering individuals to own their voice and share their expertise with confidence.
An Expert in the Wedding industry
Alexandra previously worked as Director of Events and Experiences for a global wedding conference company. She built a community comprised of world-renowned wedding industry experts, curated conferences, and produced international parties. In her role, she paved the way for best practices, extreme high-end luxury and delved into the psyche of the wedding industry. Alexandra worked with Wedding planners, tourist boards, royalty, MPs, and many more industry experts to delve into the workings of the industry and showcase leadership within the industry.
With this experience, Alexandra brings her very best to my Wedding coaching and counselling clients and has become exceptionally passionate about intentional coupledom and relationships. Alexandra challengesher clients to get clear on who they are, how they operate, and how they can show up for themselves and their partners.
With years of experience curating high-profile events and working alongside global industry leaders, Alexandra understands what it takes to captivate an audience and deliver a message that truly resonates.
Curating Meaningful Content & Communities
With a deep-rooted passion for bringing people together, Alexandra specialises in curating content and fostering communities that inspire connection, growth, and transformation. Drawing from her extensive experience in the global wedding industry—Alexandra crafts events that go beyond logistics, focusing on intentional programming and authentic engagement.
From concept to execution, Alexandra has successfully designed and delivered conferences and experiences in over 20 countries, collaborating with industry experts, thought leaders, and high-profile stakeholders. Her expertises lies in curating compelling content that resonates with audiences and creating spaces where industry professionals can connect, share, and thrive.
Alexandra’s approach to event curation includes:
Community Building: Developing spaces that cultivate meaningful relationships and foster long-term engagement within industries and networks.
Content Strategy & Programming: Curating impactful agendas that align with audience needs, featuring thought-provoking discussions, workshops, and panels that drive value and inspiration.
Global Experience: Leveraging my international background to create culturally attuned events that appeal to diverse audiences and stakeholders.
Strategic Partnerships: Bringing together key industry players to enhance event impact and create collaborative opportunities for growth.
Whether you're looking to curate a conference, workshop, or intimate gathering that delivers meaningful connections and high-value content, I bring a thoughtful, strategic approach to ensure your vision becomes a reality.
Destinations Alexandra has worked…
Paris • St. Moritz • Kuala Lumpur • CDMX • London • Istanbul • Dubai • Venice • Ko Pha Ngan • Buenos Aires • Phnom Penh • Birmingham • Madrid • Cape Town • Bogota • Medellin • Split • Prague • Córdoba • Lisbon •
